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Why Do People Give up Their Baby for Adoption?

Many women from all walks of life have pursued adoption for different reasons. But, the decision will always be up to you, and you will never be alone.

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Why Do People Give up Their Baby for Adoption?

People choose to give their baby up for adoption for many different reasons. Whether you want to give your baby a life of love and opportunity or continue working toward your own goals before parenting, there are many reasons for putting a child up for adoption.

Below are some of the most common reasons why women give a child up for adoption:

1. You love your baby and want them to have the best life possible

One of the main reasons women choose to give their baby up for adoption is that they love their baby unconditionally. You’re putting your baby’s needs before your own to make the best choice for you and your baby. The love you have for your baby is the motivation to give your baby the best life possible.

Birth mother Nicole chose to put her baby up for adoption to do what was best for her situation. She wanted to give her baby the life he deserved.

“Although I felt devastated when I learned I was pregnant, I eventually fell so in love with the life I created and wanted everything for him,” Nicole said. “The weeks that followed Eddy’s birth have been the hardest time of my life, but with every phone call, text message, e-mail and visit, it gets a little easier, and I am reassured that I made the right choice.”

2. You want your child to grow up with two loving parents

Many women choose adoption for their baby because the birth father isn’t in the picture. Instead of raising a baby on your own, adoption allows you to secure a stable lifestyle for your baby in a home with two loving adoptive parents. The beauty behind this is that you can choose the perfect adoptive family for your baby.

Whether you prefer an adoptive family that lives on the beach, in the suburbs or somewhere in the city, you can choose the lifestyle you want your baby to have. According to American Adoptions, a licensed national adoption agency, most adoptive families are married couples who have been together for years. Through adoption, your baby will thrive in a household with two loving parents.

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3. You have goals or dreams you want to accomplish

An unplanned pregnancy can come at a time when you least expect it. If your plans don’t include raising a baby, then adoption can provide you and your child with a brighter future filled with endless opportunities. Whatever goals and dreams you have can become a reality.

Whether you have plans to further your education, pursue career goals or get married, putting your future first is a good enough reason to give your baby up for adoption. For birth mother Jennifer, adoption allowed her to continue her college degree. As a freshman in college, she knew she wasn’t prepared to raise a child.

“I chose adoption simply because I was not ready for a child. I needed a college degree before I started a family,” Jennifer said. “I have seen the difficult life a single teenage mother has, especially one trying to balance a baby and college. I wanted my child to have everything from the start, including a perfect family with a mom and dad.”

4. You know you would struggle with parenting your baby

The costs of raising a child can add up quickly. The cost of raising a child will cost an average of $310,605 and doesn’t include the cost of education.  Many women who choose adoption know they cannot financially provide for their child. Out of love, they place their children with adoptive parents who are more prepared for parenthood.

Giving your baby up for adoption will always be free for you as the prospective birth mother. Also, you will be eligible for adoption financial assistance to cover your pregnancy- and adoption-related expenses. Through financial support, you’ll be able to focus on having a safe, healthy pregnancy.

5. You want to feel empowered and in control of your situation

An unplanned pregnancy can feel like your life is out of control. When you put your baby up for adoption, you’ll be able to take back control of your situation to create a brighter future for yourself and your baby. You control the entire process, including choosing an adoptive family to creating your adoption plan.

You’ll be able to shape your future knowing that two loving adoptive parents will always support your baby. Every decision in the adoption process begins with you.

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